In Loving Memory
A smiling portrait of Betty Walsh wearing a green scarf and a red flower

A Celebration of the Life of Betty Walsh

A gathering place for our family to remember Betty — to share her memories, honor her wishes, and hold close the love she gave so freely.

And HE will raise you up on eagles' wings

Her Parting Words

“First of all, know how much I loved you. You were my true jewels, the joys of my heart. Jack, my beloved husband, father of my sons, best and dearest friend… and John, my best firstborn son; Chris, my best middleborn son, and Keith, my best youngest son. Thank you for so many wonderful memories. And my grandchildren: Amanda, Macayla, Jack, Sarah, Ryan, Derek and Caroline… you made my heart sing just thinking of you, and being with you was heaven on earth. And now, our three great grandchildren: Teagan, Rowan and Mila.

The hardest thing at this time will be leaving you. Yet, try to remember all the times we had fun. Please always try to remember how much I loved each one of you… Please stay in touch with one another. Life is so short.”

With all my love, Betty

The Mass

Services

Please join us in celebrating Betty's life. Below are the details for the wake and the Mass of Remembrance, followed by the order of service she chose. Tap any part to read the full Scripture or hymn lyrics.

Wake

Thursday, July 9
3:00 – 7:00 PM
Barile-Doherty Family Funeral Home

Mass of Remembrance

Friday, July 10
10:30 AM
St. Agnes Church, Reading

For those that can, meet at the funeral home at 9:30 AM before the procession to the church.

Full ProgramThe complete two-day agenda for Thursday and Friday. Tap to expand.

Thursday

Setup & Wake
  1. 12:00 – 2:00 PM

    St. Agnes Church Setup

    • Arrival: 12:00 – 12:30 PM (the church will be open).
    • On-Site Contact: Beth Stakem will meet you there.
    • Tasks: Set up tables, tablecloths, decorations, and prepare the kitchen/food area.
  2. 2:00 – 3:00 PM

    Funeral Home Setup

    • Arrival: Around 2:00 PM.
    • Tasks: Bring and set up photos, test the slideshow, arrange flowers, and queue up the custom playlist.
  3. 3:00 – 7:00 PM

    The Wake

    • 3:00 PM — Doors Open: Welcoming family, friends, and guests; background music playlist begins.
    • 4:30 PM — Mid-Visitation Reflection: Continuous loop of the photo slideshow; space for quiet visitation.
    • 7:00 PM — Wake Concludes: Quiet exit for guests; secure photos and media for Friday.

Friday

Funeral & Reception
  1. 9:30 AM

    Funeral Home Lineup & Procession

    • Location: Barile-Doherty Family Funeral Home, 11 Linden Street.
    • Details: Family and party gather at the funeral home to organize and begin the funeral procession to St. Agnes Church ahead of the morning mass.
  2. 10:00 AM

    Reception Prep (St. Agnes)

    • Staffing: Servers arrive at 10:00 AM. Make sure cart is accessible for food.
    • Catering: Food delivered by Fusilli's at 11:00 AM for setup.
  3. 10:30 – 11:30 AM

    Funeral Mass

    • 10:30 AM — Processional & Opening Rites: Arrival at the church, opening music, greeting, and placing of the pall.
    • 10:40 AM — Eulogy: John.
    • 10:50 AM — Liturgy of the Word (The Readings): Readings by Eileen, Kathy, and Jenn.
    • Liturgy of the Eucharist — Communion: Offertory gifts brought up by Amanda Swartz, Derek Walsh, and Sarah Walsh.
    • 11:30 AM — Concluding Rites & Recessional: Final commendation and transition to the reception.
  4. 11:30 AM – 1:30 PM

    Reception (St. Agnes Reception Hall)

    • 11:30 AM — Gathering Begins: Guests transition from the church to the reception hall.
    • 11:45 AM — Food & Refreshments: Buffet service opens with catering by Fusilli's.
    • 1:30 PM — Reception Concludes: Wrap up services and begin clean-up.
A golden sunrise over mountain peaks above a meadow of blooming pink wildflowers

In Loving Memory of

Portrait of Betty Walsh

Betty Walsh

(Oct 28, 1942 – June 25, 2026)

“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice.”
— Philippians 4:4

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and the rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of HER hand.

“Please always try to remember how much I loved each one of you… Please stay in touch with one another. Life is so short.”

Part I — Liturgy of the Word

Entrance HymnI Want to Walk as a Child of the LightBy Kathleen Thomerson

I want to walk as a child of the light. I want to follow Jesus. God set the stars to give light to the world. The star of my life is Jesus. [Refrain] In Him there is no darkness at all. The night and the day are both alike. The Lamb is the light of the city of God. Shine in my heart, Lord Jesus. I want to see the brightness of God. I want to look at Jesus. Clear Sun of Righteousness, shine on my path, And show me the way to the Father. [Repeat Refrain] I'm looking for the coming of Christ. I want to be with Jesus. When we have run with patience the race, We shall know the joy of Jesus. [Repeat Refrain]

First ReadingMicah 6:8From the Book of the Prophet Micah

He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

Responsorial PsalmOn Eagle's WingsBy Michael Joncas

You who dwell in the shelter of the Lord, Who abide in His shadow for life, Say to the Lord: "My refuge, my rock in whom I trust!" [Refrain] And He will raise you up on eagles' wings, Bear you on the breath of dawn, Make you to shine like the sun, And hold you in the palm of His hand. The snare of the fowler will never capture you, And famine will bring you no fear: Under His wings your refuge, His faithfulness your shield. [Repeat Refrain] You need not fear the terror of the night, Nor the arrow that flies by day; Though thousands fall about you, near you it shall not come. [Repeat Refrain] For to His angels He's given a command To guard you in all of your ways; Upon their hands they will bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone. [Repeat Refrain]

Second ReadingPhilippians 4:4-6From the Letter of Saint Paul to the Philippians

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Third ReadingPrayers of the FaithfulThe Intercessions

Priest: God, the almighty Father, raised Christ his Son from the dead; with confidence we ask him to save all his people, living and dead: Reader: Please respond, "Lord, hear our prayer" to the following petitions. For N., who in baptism was given the pledge of eternal life, that he/she may now be admitted to the company of the saints. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer. For our sister/brother who ate the Body of Christ, the Bread of Life, that she/he may be raised up on the last day. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer. For our deceased relatives and friends and for all who have helped us, that they may have the reward of their goodness. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer. For those who have fallen asleep in the hope of rising again, that they may see God face to face. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer. For the family and friends of our brother/sister N., that they may be consoled in their grief by the Lord, who wept at the death of his friend Lazarus. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer. For all of us assembled here to worship in faith, that we may be gathered together again in God's kingdom. We pray to the Lord: All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Gospel ReadingMark 5:35-43From the Holy Gospel according to Mark

While Jesus was still speaking, some people came from the synagogue leader's house to say, "Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the teacher any further?" But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the synagogue leader, "Do not be afraid; only believe." He allowed no one to follow him except Peter, James, and John, the brother of James. When they came to the synagogue leader's house, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. When he had entered, he said to them, "Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping." And they laughed at him. Then he put them all outside and took the child's father and mother and those who were with him and went in where the child was. Taking her by the hand, he said to her, "Talitha koum," which means, "Little girl, get up!" And immediately the girl stood up and began to walk about (she was twelve years of age). At this they were overcome with amazement. He strictly ordered them that no one should know this and told them to give her something to eat.

Part II — Liturgy of the Eucharist

Offertory HymnHail Mary, Gentle WomanBy Carey Landry

[Intro] Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women and Blest is the fruit of your womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, Pray for us sinners now and at the hour of death. Amen. [Refrain] Gentle woman, quiet light, morning star, so strong and bright, Gentle Mother, peaceful dove, teach us wisdom; teach us love. You were chosen by the Father; You were chosen for the Son. You were chosen from all women and for woman, shining one. [Repeat Refrain] Blessed are you among women, Blest in turn all women, too. Blessed they with peaceful spirits; Blessed they with gentle hearts. [Repeat Refrain]

Communion HymnLord, You Have Come to the SeashoreBy Césareo Gabaráin / Pescador de Hombres

Lord, You have come to the seashore, Looking neither for wealthy nor wise ones; You only asked me to follow humbly. [Refrain] O Lord, with Your eyes You have searched me, Kindly smiling, have spoken my name. Now my boat's left on the shoreline behind me; By Your side I will seek other seas. You know so well my possessions; My boat carries no gold and no weapons, But nets and fishes—my daily labor. [Repeat Refrain] You need my hands, full of caring, Through my labors to give others rest, And constant love that keeps on loving. [Repeat Refrain] Lord, as I drift on the waters, Be the resting place of my restless heart, My life's companion, my friend and refuge. [Repeat Refrain]

Meditation HymnThe PrayerAs performed by Josh Groban

I pray you'll be our eyes, and watch us where we go And help us to be wise, in times when we don't know Let this be our prayer, when we lose our way Lead us to a place, guide us with your grace To a place where we'll be safe. I pray we'll find your light (La luce che tu dai) And hold it in our hearts (Nel cuore resterà) When stars go out each night (A ricordarci che) Remind us where you are (L'eterna stella sei) Nella mia preghiera (Let this be our prayer) Quanta fede c'è (When shadows fill our day) Lead us to a place, guide us with your grace Give us faith so we'll be safe. Sognamo un mondo senza più violenza Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino Simbolo di pace e di fraternità. La forza che ci dai (We ask that life be kind) È il desiderio che (And watch us from above) Ognuno trovi amor (We hope each soul will find) Intorno e dentro a sé (Another soul to love) Let this be our prayer (Let this be our prayer) Just like every child (Just like every child) Needs to find a place, guide us with your grace Give us faith so we'll be safe. È la fede che hai acceso in noi Sento che ci salverà.

Recessional HymnLet There Be Peace on EarthBy Sy Miller and Jill Jackson

Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me; Let there be peace on earth, the peace that was meant to be. With God our Creator, family all are we. Let us walk with each other in perfect harmony. Let peace begin with me, let this be the moment now. With every step I take, may this be my solemn vow: To take each moment and live each moment in peace eternally. Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me.

Memories

Cherished Moments

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The Gallery

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Music

Betty's Playlist

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